I realized I have not written a post for a while. Well, Lauren creating a post reminded me. It is quite amusing so go check it out by clicking on her name! ^^^^
In my realization I remembered that I never posted any pictures from Halloween or Thanksgiving. Here they are:
This is our gang's costume theme for Halloween.
We were characters from Despicable Me. :)
This is right before we stuffed our faces with Thanksgiving food!
My parents, my Gram, Nathan and I.
Nathan and I do not have room for a real xmas tree,
so we bought this little one for our apartment.
All of our ornaments are too big for it
so I came up with a way they can still be a part of the action.
These are the ones that hang off the wall behind the tree.
This is one of three little reindeer ornaments my Gram gave me at Thanksgiving.
As you can see he is very happy in his new home.
Also he has a little penguin earring hang off from his antler,
who would not be happy for that? :P
As you can probably tell I like to show my life through pictures. I feel that they can say more than I can in just typing. They say a picture is worth a thousands words and I agree! Pictures also help me to remember important events, big or small, that happen in my life. I wish that I took more pictures because I love doing it, but life is so busy! This has been a busy semester for me and I know it will only be busier next semester. That is why I am looking forward to a month off for xmas vacation! Whooo!
I am hoping I will use my relaxation time wisely by going outside and not staying on the couch the whole time. :P
Speaking of xmas... I am still working on the list of stuff I need to make/buy/decided what to give people. I was going to say "what to get people" but then I thought "That isn't really the point is it?" There is a big difference between "getting" someone something or "giving" someone something. *Caution* This is where I may get deep....
I am now going to break down the difference between "get" and "give".
get |get|
verb ( gets, getting ; past got |gät|; past participle got or gotten |ˈgätn| )
1 [ with obj. ] come to have or hold (something); receive: I got the impression that she wasn't happy.
• experience, suffer, or be afflicted with (something bad): I got a sudden pain in my left eye.
• receive as a punishment or penalty: I'll get the sack if things go wrong.
• contract (a disease or ailment): I might be getting the flu.
give |giv|
verb ( past gave |gāv|; past participle given |ˈgivən| )
1 [ with two objs. ] freely transfer the possession of (something) to (someone); hand over to: they gave her water to drink | the check given to the jeweler proved worthless | [ with obj. ] : he gave the papers back.
• bestow (love, affection, or other emotional support): his parents gave him the encouragement he needed to succeed | (as adj.giving) : he was very giving and supportive.
I did not include everything that the dictionary said but as you can see "get" just seem purely negative, and while "give" can have some negative components it can be positive as well. Getting someone something implies no thought, while giving someone something requires thought.
I would like to highlight one part of "give" and that is: bestow (love, affection, or other emotional support).
I think this is very important difference to keep in mind this time of year. Especially for me who is no longer a child and naive to all the negative aspects of what the holiday season tries to hide. The part I am most talking about is having to get people things. Why do we feel this way? Why do most of us groan at the thought of this time of year? This is the time where we are suppose to spend time with our family, strive for world peace, and give to those who need most the simple thing just to survive. The reason why we groan at all this is because during the rest of the year we spend time burning the bridges that are suppose to be there to support us and help us through tough times.
So this xmas try to give people you care about things that have meaning. This does not have to be something of physical value. Sentimental is what we should strive for when giving gifts. Experiences that will last a life time. Something that will bring a smile when thought about. I know this may require more thought that just getting something, but isn't that what this time of the year is about? Thinking about people you care for and showing that you really just want them to be happy?
I know this is different from what I usually write about and it is just food for thought. One thing just kind of snowballed into another and so on. I hope you have very happy holidays, and know that I love you. :) Yes you, the person reading this.
